10 Bersaudara Hafal Al Quran, Ternyata ini Kunci Pendidikan Orangtuanya

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Although mesothelioma, also known as asbestos cancer, is a rare disease, it is one of the most lethal forms of cancer ever diagnosed. Additionally, it’s one of the most difficult types of cancer to detect because of its long period of dormancy: a mesothelioma patient can live between 20 to 50 years before the first symptoms show up. When a patient does become symptomatic, doctors often lose precious treatment time because mesothelioma warning signs mimic symptoms of common respiratory ailments. In addition, it is also an aggressive type of cancer that can spread quickly from the affected body areas to other organs. These factors, when combined with the demographics of who is more susceptible to the disease, make mesothelioma especially deadly. If you or a loved one suffer from mesothelioma, asbestos-related lung cancer, or asbestosis, you may qualify for substantial compensation. Currently, there is over $30 billion in asbestos trust funds, awaiting those who’ve been diagnosed with an asbestos illness. We invite you to fill out our form today for a free Financial Compensation Packet, filled with information about top mesothelioma lawyers in your area, how to get paid in 90 days, how to file an asbestos trust fund claim, and much more. Statistics According to a 2009 report by the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), 18,068 patients diagnosed with malignant mesothelioma died between 1999 and 2005. Though year-to-year figures may vary, the annual death rate of mesothelioma patients is an average of 14 per every million. When compared, this is still a small percentage of the entire population. Yet, its particular lethality and relative rarity make mesothelioma a disease with extremely low survival rates. Although survival rates in mesothelioma patients depend on a wide range of factors, a patient can expect an post-diagnosis survival time of between four months to a year and a half. Keep in mind, however, that there are always exceptions to this rule and each patient should talk to their physician about their own personal health and expectations. Generally, how long a patient lives after mesothelioma has been diagnosed depends on an array of variables such as age, gender, race, and overall health. For instance, if a patient is a male between 25 and 34 years of age and in good physical condition with no preexisting conditions, his chances of surviving longer than 18 months are promising. Patients such as these benefit from early detection and surgical treatment of the disease. Keep in mind, however, that this age group is one of the least affected by asbestos-related cancer. The average survival rates for older patients is bleaker. According to the American Cancer Society (ACC), even though 5-10% of patients diagnosed with mesothelioma can live for five years or more after the initial diagnosis, these individuals are usually young with cancers that can be surgically treated. Since the average mesothelioma patient tends to be a white male aged 60-70 who was heavily exposed to asbestos during his active work years, the cancer is already well-developed and can’t be treated with surgery. Older patients also may have debilitating health issues, such as cardiopulmonary diseases and hypertension, which help to reduce their lifespans. Patients in these two age brackets (65-74 and 75-84) have the highest death totals. From the years 1999 through 2005, 12,150 out of the 18,068 recorded mesothelioma deaths were happened to victims ages 65 through 84. Survival Rate Facts to Consider Generally speaking, it is typically difficult, if not impossible, to predict accurate life expectancy after a patient is diagnosed with mesothelioma. Along with each patient’s case being different from the next, the disease is still considered a new and a unique form of cancer, and averages based on the tumor-lymph node-metastasis (TNM) staging process are still difficult to evaluate at this point. However, studies suggest that a patient’s post-diagnosis life expectancy will depend on a combination of several factors: Latency: Unfortunately, mesothelioma has an extremely long latency period, typically up to 20 to 50 years after exposure. This makes it difficult to get an early detection, therefore, shortening survival rate. The sooner the disease is detected, the higher your life expectancy and survival rate. The Stage of the Disease After Diagnosis: Victims in Stage I or II of the disease have a much better survival rate than those who are diagnosed in later stages. Tumor Removal: Surgery is usually not an option as most cases of mesothelioma are discovered after the disease has advanced to its later stages. However, if the disease is caught early and the tumor can be surgically removed, survival rate is usually prolonged. Age: As aforementioned, age plays a huge role. The younger the patient, the better chance they have in surviving longer and increasing life expectancy. Yet, although rare, older patients in optimal physical health may has just as good of a chance as younger patients. Area of the Disease: Mesothelioma affects different regions of the body. The majority of mesothelioma cases affect the pleural area of the body, but there are instances in which the abdominal cavity and other body areas will be impacted by the disease. Since pleural mesothelioma is the easiest to treat, victims with this form of mesothelioma have a higher life expectancy. However, victims with epithelial mesothelioma have the highest survival rates of all forms of the disease. Additional Information for Patients to Consider Although the grim facts of survival rates of mesothelioma can be discouraging, keep in mind that the statistics do not reflect everyone’s situation. For example, an Australian victim named Paul Kraus has been living with mesothelioma after being diagnosed in 1997. This is just one of the several instances in which victims have went on to defy the odds and live much longer than the average life expectancy of a mesothelioma victim. Per the ACC, all victims should remember that current statistics are based on patients that have been treated many years ago. As science progresses, the life and expectancy and survival rate may improve for more victims as mesothelioma treatment options advance. Getting Legal Help If you’ve been injured by asbestos, keep in mind that there is a good chance that you’ll qualify for considerable compensation. Don’t forget to fill out our form to get our free Financial Compensation Packet, filled with information on the leading asbestos and mesothelioma attorneys in your area. If you have questions or need additional assistance, contact us at 800-793-4540.

RODABERPUTAR.COM-Mendidik anak menjadi anak yang shaleh dan shalehah tidak semudah membalikkan telapak tangan, butuh ketekunan, kesabaran dan orangtua harus bisa memberikan contoh bagi anak-anaknya.

Salah satu contoh  bukti orangtua bisa mendidik anaknya adalah ketika anak-anak mereka bisa menghafal Al Quran.

Namun, tidak banyak di dunia ini, satu keluarga yang bisa menghafal kitab suci Agama Islam tersebut. Meski demikian, ada beberapa keluarga yang fasih membacakan ayat demi ayat dalam Al Quran tersebut.

Seperti, kisah nyata sebuah keluarga Muslim di Indonesia ini. Sang orangtua  mampu menjadikan 10 orang buah hati mereka sebagai anak-anak yang shalih, hafal Al-Qur’an dan berprestasi.

Keluarga luar biasa itu adalah pasangan suami istri Mutammimul Ula, SH dan Dra Wirianingsih, Bc.Hk, beserta 10 putra-putri mereka. Yang lebih luar biasa lagi adalah, kedua orang tua ini tergolong super sibuk dengan berbagai aktivitas dakwahnya.

Mutammimul Ula adalah mantan anggota DPR RI dari fraksi PKS. Sedangkan Wirianingsih adalah Ketua Aliansi Selamatkan Anak (ASA) Indonesia dan pernah pula menjadi Ketua Umum PP Salimah (Persaudaraan Muslimah) yang cabangnya sudah tersebar di 29 provinsi dan lebih dari 400 daerah di Indonesia.

Anak pertama, Afzalurahman Assalam
Putra pertama. Hafal Al-Qur’an pada usia 13 tahun. Saat tulisan ini dibuat usianya 23 tahun, semester akhir Teknik Geofisika ITB. Juara I MTQ Putra Pelajar SMU se-Solo, Ketua Pembinaan Majelis Taklim Salman ITB dan terpilih sebagai peserta Pertamina Youth Programme 2007.

Anak kedua, Faris Jihady Hanifah
Putra kedua. Hafal Al-Qur’an pada usia 10 tahun dengan predikat mumtaz. Saat tulisan ini disusun usianya 21 tahun dan duduk di semester 7 Fakultas Syariah LIPIA. Peraih juara I lomba tahfiz Al-Qur’an yang diselenggarakan oleh kerajaan Saudi di Jakarta tahun 2003, juara olimpiade IPS tingkat SMA yang diselenggarakan UNJ tahun 2004, dan sekarang menjadi Sekretaris Umum KAMMI Jakarta.

Anak ketiga, Maryam Qonitat
Hafal Al-Qur’an sejak usia 16 tahun. Saat tulisan ini dibuat usianya 19 tahun dan duduk di semester V Fakultas Ushuluddin Universitas Al-Azhar, Kairo, Mesir. Pelajar teladan dan lulusan terbaik Pesantren Husnul Khatimah, 2006. Sekarang juga menghafal hadits dan mendapatkan sanad Rasulullah dari Syaikh Al-Azhar.

Anak keempat, Scientia Afifah Taibah
Putri keempat. Hafal 29 juz sejak SMA. Kini usianya 19 tahun dan duduk di Fakultas Hukum Universitas Indonesia (UI). Saat SMP menjadi pelajar teladan dan saat SMA memperoleh juara III lomba Murottal Al-Qur’an tingkat SMA se-Jakarta Selatan.

Anak kelima, Ahmad Rasikh ‘Ilmi
Putra kelima. Saat tulisan ini dibuat, hafal 15 juz Al-Qur’an, dan duduk di MA Husnul Khatimah, Kuningan. Ia lulusan terbaik SMPIT Al-Kahfi, juara I Kompetisi English Club Al-Kahfi dan menjadi musyrif bahasa Arab MA Husnul Khatimah.

Anak keenam, Ismail Ghulam Halim
Putra keenam. Saat tulisan ini dibuat hafal 13 juz Al-Qur’an, dan duduk di SMAIT Al-Kahfi Bogor. Ia lulusan terbaik SMPIT Al-Kahfi, juara lomba pidato bahasa Arab SMP se-Jawa Barat, serta santri teladan, santri favorit, juara umum dan tahfiz terbaik tiga tahun berturut-turut di SMPIT Al-Kahfi.

Anak ketujuh, Yusuf Zaim Hakim
Putra ketujuh. Saat tulisan ini dibuat ia hafal 9 juz Al-Qur’an dan duduk di SMPIT Al-Kahfi, Bogor. Prestasinya antara lain: peringkat I di SDIT, peringkat I SMP, juara harapan I Olimpiade Fisika tingkat Kabupaten Bogor, dan finalis Kompetisi tingkat Kabupaten Bogor.

Anak kedelapan, Muhammad Syaihul Basyir
Putra kedelapan. Saat tulisan ini dibuat, ia duduk di MTs Darul Qur’an, Bogor. Yang sangat istimewa adalah, ia sudah hafal Al-Qur’an 30 juz pada saat kelas 6 SD.

Anak kesembilan, Hadi Sabila Rosyad
Putra kesembilan. Saat tulisan ini dibuat, ia bersekolah di SDIT Al-Hikmah, Mampang, Jakarta Selatan dan hafal 2 juz Al-Qur’an. Di antara prestasinya adalah juara I lomba membaca puisi.

Anak kesepuluh, Himmaty Muyassarah
Putri kesepuluh. Saat tulisan ini dibuat, ia bersekolah di SDIT Al-Hikmah, Mampang, Jakarta Selatan dan hafal 2 juz Al-Qur’an.

Kembali ke keluarga Mutammimul Ula di atas.

Di balik kesuksesan Kang Tamim ternyata ada satu sosok wanita yang telah melahirkan sepuluh keturunannya. Siapa lagi kalau bukan istrinya, Wirianingsih.

Siapa Wirianingsih? Bertitel lengkap Dra. Wirianingsih, Bc.Hk, lahir di Jakarta, 11 September 1962 (hampir 50 tahun). Selain ibu rumah tangga, banyak aktivitas yang dia lakukan, di antaranya menjadi dosen, kuliah pasca sarjana, dan aktivis perempuan.

Terkini adalah menjadi anggota Dewan Pertimbangan PP Persaudaraan Muslimah (Salimah) bersama Ustadzah Nursanita Nasution, dll dimana sebelumnya dia menjadi Ketua Umum. Mereka adalah anggota DPR dari fraksi yang sama saat Mutammimul Ula menjadi anggota dewan.

Lalu, metode apa yang Kang Tamim dan Mbak Wiwi terapkan dalam mendidik putra-putrinya?
Kuncinya adalah keseimbangan proses. Begitu simpulan dari metode pendidikan anak-anak sebagaimana tertulis dalam buku “10 Bersaudara Bintang Al-Quran“.

Walaupun mereka berdua sibuk, mereka telah menetapkan pola hubungan keluarga yang saling bertanggungjawab dan konsisten satu sama lain. Selepas Magrib jadwal mereka adalah berinteraksi dengan Al-Qur’an.

Guna mendukung kesuksesan program ini, mereka mencanangkan kebijakan sederhana, yakni: menyingkirkan televisi dari rumah, tidak memasang gambar-gambar selain kaligrafi, tidak membunyikan musik-musik yang melalaikan, dan tidak ada perkataan kotor di lingkungan keluarga dan masyarakat.

Hal yang cukup mendasar yang dimiliki keluarga ini sehingga mampu mendidik 10 bersaudara bintang Al-Quran adalah visi dan konsep yang jelas.

Pertama adalah menjadikan putra-putri seluruhnya hafal Al-Qur’an. Kedua, pembiasaan dan manajemen waktu. Setelah salat Subuh dan Maghrib adalah waktu khusus untuk Al-Qur’an yang tidak boleh dilanggar dalam keluarga ini. Sewaktu masih balita, Wirianingsih konsisten membaca Al-Qur’an di dekat mereka, mengajarkannya, bahkan mendirikan TPQ di rumahnya.

Ketiga, mengomunikasikan tujuan dan memberikan hadiah. Meskipun awalnya merasa terpaksa, namun saat sudah besar mereka memahami menghafal Al-Qur’an sebagai hal yang sangat perlu, penting, bahkan kebutuhan. Komunikasi yang baik sangat mendukung hal ini. Dan saat anak-anak mampu menghafal Al-Qur’an, mereka diberi hadiah. Barangkali semacam reward atas pencapaian mereka. Mengenai punishment tidak dijelaskan secara rinci.

Penulis buku (10 Bersaudara Bintang Al-Qur’an) ini  membahas urgentitas menjadi hafiz Al-Qur’an. Penulis mengklasifikasikannya menjadi dua bagian: keutamaan dunia dan keutamaan akhirat. Fadhail dunia antara lain: hifzul Al-Quran merupakan nikmat rabbani, mendatangkan kebaikan, berkah dan rahmat bagi penghafalnya, hafiz Al-Qur’an mendapat penghargaan khusus dari Nabi (tasyrif nabawi), dihormati umat manusia.

Sedangkan fadhail akhirat meliputi: Al-Qur’an menjadi penolong (syafaat) penghafalnya, meninggikan derajat di surga, penghafal Al-Qur’an bersama para malaikat yang mulia dan taat, diberi tajul karamah (mahkota kemuliaan), kedua orang tuanya diberi kemuliaan, dan pahala yang melimpah.                          

Sumber: 10 Bersaudara Bintang Al-Qur’an
Penulis: Izzatul Jannah – Irfan Hidayatullah
Penerbit: Sygma Publishing, Bandung (2), Januari 2010
Club Curhat Muslim dan Muslimah – (Galuh Rossie)

Although mesothelioma, also known as asbestos cancer, is a rare disease, it is one of the most lethal forms of cancer ever diagnosed. Additionally, it’s one of the most difficult types of cancer to detect because of its long period of dormancy: a mesothelioma patient can live between 20 to 50 years before the first symptoms show up. When a patient does become symptomatic, doctors often lose precious treatment time because mesothelioma warning signs mimic symptoms of common respiratory ailments. In addition, it is also an aggressive type of cancer that can spread quickly from the affected body areas to other organs. These factors, when combined with the demographics of who is more susceptible to the disease, make mesothelioma especially deadly. If you or a loved one suffer from mesothelioma, asbestos-related lung cancer, or asbestosis, you may qualify for substantial compensation. Currently, there is over $30 billion in asbestos trust funds, awaiting those who’ve been diagnosed with an asbestos illness. We invite you to fill out our form today for a free Financial Compensation Packet, filled with information about top mesothelioma lawyers in your area, how to get paid in 90 days, how to file an asbestos trust fund claim, and much more. Statistics According to a 2009 report by the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), 18,068 patients diagnosed with malignant mesothelioma died between 1999 and 2005. Though year-to-year figures may vary, the annual death rate of mesothelioma patients is an average of 14 per every million. When compared, this is still a small percentage of the entire population. Yet, its particular lethality and relative rarity make mesothelioma a disease with extremely low survival rates. Although survival rates in mesothelioma patients depend on a wide range of factors, a patient can expect an post-diagnosis survival time of between four months to a year and a half. Keep in mind, however, that there are always exceptions to this rule and each patient should talk to their physician about their own personal health and expectations. Generally, how long a patient lives after mesothelioma has been diagnosed depends on an array of variables such as age, gender, race, and overall health. For instance, if a patient is a male between 25 and 34 years of age and in good physical condition with no preexisting conditions, his chances of surviving longer than 18 months are promising. Patients such as these benefit from early detection and surgical treatment of the disease. Keep in mind, however, that this age group is one of the least affected by asbestos-related cancer. The average survival rates for older patients is bleaker. According to the American Cancer Society (ACC), even though 5-10% of patients diagnosed with mesothelioma can live for five years or more after the initial diagnosis, these individuals are usually young with cancers that can be surgically treated. Since the average mesothelioma patient tends to be a white male aged 60-70 who was heavily exposed to asbestos during his active work years, the cancer is already well-developed and can’t be treated with surgery. Older patients also may have debilitating health issues, such as cardiopulmonary diseases and hypertension, which help to reduce their lifespans. Patients in these two age brackets (65-74 and 75-84) have the highest death totals. From the years 1999 through 2005, 12,150 out of the 18,068 recorded mesothelioma deaths were happened to victims ages 65 through 84. Survival Rate Facts to Consider Generally speaking, it is typically difficult, if not impossible, to predict accurate life expectancy after a patient is diagnosed with mesothelioma. Along with each patient’s case being different from the next, the disease is still considered a new and a unique form of cancer, and averages based on the tumor-lymph node-metastasis (TNM) staging process are still difficult to evaluate at this point. However, studies suggest that a patient’s post-diagnosis life expectancy will depend on a combination of several factors: Latency: Unfortunately, mesothelioma has an extremely long latency period, typically up to 20 to 50 years after exposure. This makes it difficult to get an early detection, therefore, shortening survival rate. The sooner the disease is detected, the higher your life expectancy and survival rate. The Stage of the Disease After Diagnosis: Victims in Stage I or II of the disease have a much better survival rate than those who are diagnosed in later stages. Tumor Removal: Surgery is usually not an option as most cases of mesothelioma are discovered after the disease has advanced to its later stages. However, if the disease is caught early and the tumor can be surgically removed, survival rate is usually prolonged. Age: As aforementioned, age plays a huge role. The younger the patient, the better chance they have in surviving longer and increasing life expectancy. Yet, although rare, older patients in optimal physical health may has just as good of a chance as younger patients. Area of the Disease: Mesothelioma affects different regions of the body. The majority of mesothelioma cases affect the pleural area of the body, but there are instances in which the abdominal cavity and other body areas will be impacted by the disease. Since pleural mesothelioma is the easiest to treat, victims with this form of mesothelioma have a higher life expectancy. However, victims with epithelial mesothelioma have the highest survival rates of all forms of the disease. Additional Information for Patients to Consider Although the grim facts of survival rates of mesothelioma can be discouraging, keep in mind that the statistics do not reflect everyone’s situation. For example, an Australian victim named Paul Kraus has been living with mesothelioma after being diagnosed in 1997. This is just one of the several instances in which victims have went on to defy the odds and live much longer than the average life expectancy of a mesothelioma victim. Per the ACC, all victims should remember that current statistics are based on patients that have been treated many years ago. As science progresses, the life and expectancy and survival rate may improve for more victims as mesothelioma treatment options advance. Getting Legal Help If you’ve been injured by asbestos, keep in mind that there is a good chance that you’ll qualify for considerable compensation. Don’t forget to fill out our form to get our free Financial Compensation Packet, filled with information on the leading asbestos and mesothelioma attorneys in your area. If you have questions or need additional assistance, contact us at 800-793-4540.

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